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My best friend told me years later he DID have that exact conversation with his wife. Wanting something on the side wanted to marry him very badly, and he told her to forget about it unless she gave him a child. Biggest regret of my life, not having that conversation with my ex-wife. So this animal wasted my 30s, divorced me, and now here I am.
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So women have the key. Most women I have worked with always wanted to work with us men. One of them was aiming her comments at me being Also, that one colleague now has moved back home to her mum, at 39, she kicked her son out as he is She is single now, never married, lives at home with her mum. Wow how awesome, she had her son young but has nothing to show for it.
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Jack — You made sure to brag about the age of the woman you dated last year.
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Men have as much autonomy as any other human being when it comes to children. Any individual woman or man has a say in when and if they have children. And any individual woman or man sometimes encounters things that are out of their control.
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Yes, I was thinking the same thing, Mna. This dude is way off base. The liklihood of a child having the problems you mention, particularly bipolar, skyrocket when bio dad is over Funny how how seems to ignore this and just expects the girls to come Housewives want hot sex Brutus. Perfectly healthy child, bright, vigorous and healthy. Personally, I do it because younger men like me far more than older.
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Im sure glad my mother didnt think like you! Norman You might find this interesting. Marry somebody because you love them, and only for that reason. Any other reason is not a healthy reason to marry. The only study that I am aware of that mentions these risks is from Iceland where people are very closely genetically related their family lineage goes back to the Viking era.
So it could you be that younger men are actively lltr women that they are related to. Having children with someone who is very genetically similar to you increases the risk of birth defects.
So I would take these findings with a grain of salt. Are you advocating rape? Because I keep seeing all these comments about waiting too long, but I thought it took two to tango and I needed a willing partner to have a child. I think in some parts of the 3rd world, they still buy and sell girls like cattle. How old is too old to have a baby? By Mary M. Murry, R. March 27, About 14 percent of births in the United States are to women 35 and older.
Now they are considered advanced maternal age. What does that mean exactly? I thought I would tackle the issues of advanced maternal age in two parts. Today I will talk about conception and early pregnancy. I will cover more of the possible issues of late pregnancy in women over 35 if you are interested. My goal is not to make light of the potential issues but rather put them in perspective.
Nice normal man looking for ltr over 35 may take longer to be able to conceive. This is related to those eggs we have had since birth. Our eggs are with us almost from conception. They can lose quality and there can be fewer of them. This is one reason to seek help from your health care provider if you have been unable to achieve pregnancy after trying for 6 months.
There is an increase in spontaneous miscarriage with an approximate risk of 25 percent in Noce age and 51 percent in women If you look at this another way, women have a 75 percent chance of not having a miscarriage. The concern many women over 35 hear Developing Covington takes time most often is Down Syndrome or other chromosomal abnormalities.
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Biology did not create a system where older men where the prime sexual partners. It did create a system that would protect the species from extinction. But since younger men still exist in droves, younger men, just like younger women, are the prime sexual partners. Older men, just like older women, are not. Women are very aware of how being older affects potential off spring. However, there is not enough conversation and information given to men about how their age affects children as well.
A woman has a much better chance of having healthy children with younger men, than older men. HOpe this helps you. AllHeartI never said men over 40 were just as fertile as men in their 20s, I was they are much more fertile than women who are the same agre.
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But you excluded us already looking for a young girl. There are also 42 year old women that want children.
What do you think of these women? You have had decades to have children and decided not to up until this point. But that is simply not reality. Unfortunately, this message is a little late for you. But someone should be telling this to younger men in their 20s and 30s: For one thing fertility is not as big of issue for men. Based on some age studies I have looked on IVF sites, most women are infertile by age 42, most men are not. What rubbish. In fact most women are around 7 years younger than their partner on average.
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And I got confuse…. I would not date someone whom I do not understand even if she is cute. I would probably learn her language because there is no working relationship without communication. I am in the same boat as the original writer. I look a lot younger, I am fit, have a good job. I am not looking for a 25 year old, they are immature, sometimes Nice normal man looking for ltr I open the door or pull out Gilian sex Nevada City chair for them they look surprised, they do not get it.
I think finding someone close to my years and older than is a realistic goal. However I have zero luck even though I live in San Diego, California where one would think opportunity is everywhere.
I do not discriminate based on race or having children because I adopt to these. My experience supports this theory too. I might also add: These older guys are still not looking for a serious relationship because they likely never will. Ignore them. Continue looking for the 1 or 2 decent guys near your own age who want what you do, marriage and kids. I am single, Life is so exciting travelling the world and acting like I am young again. I am experiencing a mid-life revival where my health is great, I feel 21 again, and it is easy for me to get distracted by the many good things of this world.
We can become so obsessed with qualifying for eligibility, i. Women have such high expectations of men. Modern feminists have a lot to answer for. They overcompensated for years of oppression by devaluing men and overselling the power of women to the extent that the social mirror for women these days shames women who want to be stay-home moms.
That expectation was created by feminists. Or so the social mirror compels them. I just want someone committed to the relationship more than committed to self. Because both genders have inherent traits that benefit family-making.
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And Joseph, why would you support an individual that wants to devalue an entire group of people based any factor related to their skin I need a blowjob hosting, creed or age?
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Sites like OKCupid and PoF might attract more older users men and women because they require more content for relationships rather than just looking for hook ups. There is also -no- western fabrication that says older women are more valuable than younger women, it is the opposite. Media often pairs much younger women with older men, which is Horny women in Norway so many older men have a problem with younger women not wanting them.
They feel they are being denied something they seem to think they are entitled to. Maybe people should try dating people in their own age groups if they are unable to get people younger. And especially have to go to other countries and take advantage of people suffering financial hardships. In many cases those people are used for money, and abandoned when the money is gone.
Or after gaining PR or citizenship. Also, millennials mainly grew up on the internet. The mindset is very different from that of baby boomers. Culture plays a big role in younger people wanting to date within their own generation.
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Older people are on their iphones as much as younger people. They use Facebook, Instagram and Twitter too. Technology is not the playground of the young only. So maybe both are accurate to say. Why is it so strange that women years older than you would look at your profile?
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I know I would. With the advances in medical technology, women over 40 are having healthy pregnancies everyday. However, you admit that you never had a single conversation about your future family before marrying her.
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A study of women found they were twice as likely to get pregnant if their partner was under 40 vs. Women aged 35 took 5x longer to get pregnant by men aged 45 vs women aged 35 with partners in their twenties.
Women in their early 30s are much more likely to get pregnant in a year if their partner is under Infertility rates in men double between 25 and If a 40 or 45 year old is in this category he may instantly get a young woman pregnant, but he is the exception not the rule.
She is 3x as likely to have a miscarriage if her partner is 35 VS 25, regardless of her age.
The older her partner is the less likely a woman is to carry a baby to term. None of these studies were done in fertility clinics as was previously reported in The Guardian. Several studies in fertility clinics found the same. But if someone puts it as the first most important loiking I will run away. The guy might say he wants kids, might even mean it, jan if you break up where will the children go?
Older fathers are also thought to increase the risk of autism and schizophrenia. Now, men are also being discouraged from having children in their 40s due to exactly the same kinds of health concerns for the child.
You can get your eggs frozen at say 33 and then have a very good chance at having a child in your early forties. You can increase that age if your willing to hire a surrogate as well.
Of course all of these options do require that you have some amount of money. This then pretty much relieves the time pressure on having kids for me. Instead of a good 8 years I now have something like 13 years. I am Divorced, was married to a lady 6 months my junior. Both in the same management category. Both strong minded and will full. We both met late 39and with the support of family decided to get Nice normal man looking for ltr.
Big mistake. She battled to have kids, doctors, the works. I can have kids, even now. Went on a date with a 25 year old. Best time of my life… guess not the same for her.
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Women who date older men are often less attractive so find difficulty finding someone their own age or need financial support. Trust your gut and think about what you wantrather than numbers.
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Just a thought. And YOU are not taking that medical risk — again — do you not want to get to know a lady first in order to know, firstly, if you love her, and if you do, then surely, that would be enough, either with or without children?
And do you not think that you should take her feelings and plans into consideration before laying out the law? You only live once — why not enjoy life and the life you have with your normaal partner? Enjoy and love her — and she may love you — and you may have a future — although it may be different to the one you envisaged.
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Well men: The statistic, of a woman over 34 having a child is a risk, is merely a statistic. I British woman looking for an ltr created a child when I was My normzl is a reproductive powerhouse and birthed a nine pound baby and made milk like a milk maid.
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When I was 30 I thought that a man who was 34 was ancient. Fyi, many women in Nice normal man looking for ltr mid to late thirties have healthy babies. Even though the risks Racing in the local wives to fuck go up, the odds are still very Nice normal man looking for ltr that a woman that age will have a healthy child.
Many year old women take good care of their health and are having children later. I do know a 26 year old with a child norrmal has down syndrome though. I am currently pregnant with identical twin girls…monochorionic-diamnotic…meaning I only released one egg and it split.
My last ultrasound showed zero birth defects and no signs of down syndrome. I am going to be 39 in a couple months. I have healthy babies because I ate healthy, nutrient dense food, practiced yoga and exercised regularly prior to getting pregnant.
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He has spent his entire life chasing skirts and lookin not found anyone worth his love but at 42 he decides that its time to reproduce.?? I suggest its time to give a good woman your heart and actually want to be in a relationship with someone before you place these LARGE expectations on them. And this goes to any other man who has waited till he is 40 to settle.
I get everyone wants their freedom and fun when they are young but 40s not young, 30s not young and 25 is pushing it. Young is 18 and under and rest of us fpr have grown up by now. Complete, utter nonsense. When did the desire to have children become calling those who want to have children breeders?
I am gobsmacked you would say that, but given the tactics used on the front lines of the gender war, maybe not. Women Nice normal man looking for ltr largely depreciating asset.
You are ltrr your highest value under 25, unmarried and no children. The Lookint does not msn to men. You would call a man who wants children after 40 a womb digger, Nice normal man looking for ltr unimaginative and proves that some feminist are in fact misandrist. Memo to men in America. All men really want is a nice looking woman, who stays in-shape and grows old gracefully. Stress, smoking, bad eating habits, lack of exercisedrug abuse and drinking speed that all up ladies.
I believe your spot on Anthony. Ive been looking for a good women to date and have dated some great women. All younger than me Nice normal man looking for ltr thats whay ive always done. Women that already have children and dont want more should date men in their 40s they do Want children,such as myself. And then you go on about men being discounted. Everyone thinks its all about them. No one really cares about anyone anymore. And we wonder why we have so many unhappy relationships.
I agree with Carmela, whatever happened to ofr, not convenience?!! Also, its only natural that older women would start to gravitate towards younger men if men their age act like they should be put out to pasture once they reach a certain age.
But noooo, men are still studs because they can still shoot sperm past a certain age, right? It seem men and women are just. It seems men and women are looking at dates as if they were part of a contract of need and are not looking at each other and are just interested in taking rather than giving….
I whole heartedly disagree. A man in his 40s is really past the age of reproduction as well. If your trying to start a family in your 40s with hopes of kids you would be a womb digger. Think of it this Seeking for a down to Fair Oaks Indiana girl if you married someone at 40 had years before you had kids.
Now you are 42 by time that kid is 18 and out of just high school your What kind of life are you giving that kind? My grandparents are in their 60s and that would be the equivalent of them having me. I am 28 and do have kids. Normxl am married and settled with a college Nice normal man looking for ltr. Women 32 and older increased their chances of giving birth to a down syndrome child each year passed this age.
In fact it doubles each year past That is another drawback to waiting. Most people stay within the year either way flux keep that in mind. Past that child bearing becomes complicated and dangerous. So basically, you think a man needs to purchase a woman. To you, women seem to be similar to cattle or sheep. You expect them to have certain traits but do not think they have the right to also expect certain traits.